Bullying can be defined as repeated aggression whether it is verbal, psychological or physical, which is conducted by an individual or a group against others. It is behaviour which is intentionally aggravating and intimidating. It includes behaviour such as teasing, taunting, threatening, hitting, exclusion or extortion by one or more pupils against a victim.
Bullying behaviour thrives in an atmosphere of uncertainty and secrecy in which the victim often feels a sense of hopelessness. Isolated incidents of aggressive behaviour, while not to be condoned, cannot be described as bullying.
Indications of bullying
- Anxiety about attending school
- Deterioration in educational performance
- Pattern of physical illness
- Unexplained changed in mood behaviour
- Visible signs of anxiety or distress
- Missing possessions
- Increased requests for money
- Unexplained bruising
- Reluctance to say what is troubling him/her
These are all signs of a variety of problems as well as bullying
Procedures for noting and reporting incidents
- If a parent has concerns about their child being bullied they should inform the class teacher.
- Reports of bullying either from Parents or Staff Members should be recorded. The teacher should investigate and act appropriately. If the teacher suspects that bullying occurred the Principal/Deputy Principal should be informed.
- Parents of those involved should be notified and given an opportunity to discuss the matter by the teacher.
- It should be made clear that children reporting incidents of bullying are acting responsibly
- A record should be kept of how the matter was handled and the outcome.
- When the class moves on, the succeeding teacher should be informed of any problems that existed.
Procedures for investigation and dealing with bullying.
- Calm, unemotional, problem solving approach.
- Incidents are best investigated outside of the classroom situation
- Teachers should speak separately to the child involved
- Members of a gang should be met separately and as a group
- Parents should be informed where it has been determined that bullying has occurred.
- Check with the child/parents of the child bullied later to check that no further difficulties have arisen.
